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Assumption : Object of relation deduction

There are many versions of truth and I have seen people often jump to conclusion without knowing the whole equation. Assumption is one of the major reasons creating misunderstandings, breaking a beautiful relationship.                     

We see one side of the coin  and believe what we want to  and act accordingly. These assumptions also shows the level of trust on other person.. "we often hear, I did this because I assumed/ I thought/ I was told/ I got to know…….., if you actually trust that person all other excuses are invalid”
There is something witty about this assumption !!!
Object of relation deduction  Without any prior analysis of information Code directly goes into production 
Ohh God!! these misconceptions Forefather of relation-malfunctions There are many stories, witnessing destruction……
No reality yet supposition Sweet gesture was considered as act of seduction
Ahhh!!! Assumed assumptions!!! Bust like volcanic eruptions.
Possessive Po…

Break the stereotype - It's okay to discuss about "Periods"

When are we going to break this stereotype? “I am on my periods” Why can’t a girl say this in front of her friends, family or colleagues? Why sanitary napkins are packed in a black color polybag and then given to carry? Why TV channel is changed when “Whisper/Stayfree” is on?
We live in such a society where a girl might be undergoing lot many problems when her periods are on - she might have severe body ache, vomiting, queasiness, dizziness, constipation, mood swings, Irritation and list is on…. “That time of month is challenging for her”
But why should others bother? What if it starts when she is in her office? She cannot take a day off, as she cannot share her condition with anyone “You know, it’s not good to talk about such things”.
Question is WHY?
This is something that God has given us and we should be proud as we are fertile enough to give birth to a new life.
At Holy places – criminals, thieves, corrupted people, psychopath killers/slaughterers, even rapist are allowed but a bleeding …

Life is short, do what makes you happy…

 “I want to join dance classes”, “I want to learn playing synthesizer”, “I want to join gym", “I want to play badminton at least an hour everyday”, “I like paying cricket, I wish I could continue playing just like my school days”  and the list is on………
All of us have many small “wishes” just like the ones I mentioned above. If fulfilled, these little wishes can give us immense pleasure and contentment.!

But in this busy schedule, we are not able to take out time for the things that make us happy. We keep other things on priority and at times it’s not about priority it's about "Being Lazy"

“Yaar, who will wake up early in the morning to exercise?” “I wanted to play cricket today evening but this show on TV got hold of me” “I do not have time at all, my office starts at 10 in the morning and ends at evening 10” “I Get too tired that I hardly have any energy left after office/college.. to do any other activity” “I recently got married, we have so many things to do that I hardly g…

Journey of being Honored with the Padma shri Award - Krishn Kanhai

Journey of being Honored with the Padma shri Award
In my recent exhibition– Kalaa Spandan (Mumbai) , I met many Artists, one of them was Padma shri Krishn Kanhai. I was very eager to know about his  journey of being an Artist. His art work is mesmerizing and there is no doubt as he was born and bought up in Krishna’s Nagri – Vrindavan   
Mr Kanhai was born in 1961 in  a middle class family, he is blessed with the colorful life, as his father was a kanyai Artist and was a well known chitrakaar of Vrindavan. He had earned his name in the world of paintings with all beautiful and spellbinding paintings of Lord Krishna.

Mr Kanhai’s interest in the creativity started with the small drawings on black board, his classmates believed, he has received the creativity from his father as a blessing. His father owned a shop where they sold showpieces and very creative Krishna paintings.
His career of being an Artist started at a very early age, he helped his father in making the paintings, slowly with t…

How can I be with someone so new, Someone I never knew

In India, almost 7 out of 10 girls go through the hardships of arrange marriage.
Hell lot of questions, erupts like a volcano from within  but no one to answer,  there is no one who could take out the fear of spending entire life with someone new, she never knew. Here is my another blog describing feeling of an arranged,  To Be Bride

How can I be with someone so new, Someone I never knew
They say, he will embrace me forever, How can be they so sure, alikeme they have not met him ever.
I skip a beat every time when they plan to fix me with someone, Am I a burden for my loved ones?
“No No it’sa ritual”, they say- “You will revivify the place whereever you will stay”.
How can they decide in within few hours- With someone unknown, I will be spending my entire life happy or frown?
He will take me away from my parents, my home Entire life I will be busy making his house under a new dome
Just like papa, Will he treat me like a Princess? Or within few days he will have no interest
Will he understand me?  my drea…