How can I be with someone so new, Someone I never knew
In India, almost 7 out of 10 girls go through
the hardships of arrange marriage.
Hell lot of questions,
erupts like a volcano from within but no
one to answer,
there is no one who could take out the fear of spending entire life with someone new, she never knew.
Here is my another
blog describing feeling of an arranged, To Be Bride
How can I be with
someone so new,
Someone I never knew
They say, he will
embrace me forever,
How can be they so
sure, alike me they have not met him ever.
I skip a beat every
time when they plan to fix me with someone,
Am I a burden for my
loved ones?
“No No it’s a ritual”, they say-
“You will revivify the place where ever you will stay”.
How can they decide in
within few hours-
With someone unknown,
I will be spending my
entire life happy or frown?
He will take me away
from my parents, my home
Entire life I will be
busy making his house under a new dome
Just like papa,
Will he treat me like
a Princess?
Or within few days he
will have no interest
Will he understand me?
my dreams? My desires?
Or my talks will make
him tire?
Will he support me in
my hard decisions?
Or will that create a
great friction?
Will he stand for me
in the destitution of life?
Or will I be his for
granted Wife?
Will he be happy with
my professional success?
Or will it be a reason
for his distress?
Will he allow me to go
beyond my lines and follow my dreams, my career?
Or will he ask me to
just take care of kids, as my career could be a family barrier?
Will I be his 1st
priority?
Or will he keep other
things on superiority?
In our relationship
will he be true?
Or along with someone
else he will screw?
Will he consider my
point of view
Or will he Eschew?
I am not sure, if he will
call me immature
Or will accept me with
my mickey, mini and pooh?
Will he be able to
give me all his heart/ mind / Hugh?
To be with him I will
give my mom dad a final adieu
Not sure with him I
will be happy or Slough
Too many questions but
no answers no clue…..
How can I be with
someone so new,
Someone I never knew
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